db: PullRequest/Repository/RepoGroup/UserGroup: change 'user' to 'owner'

Rename the 'user' and 'user_id' fields on the four classes to something
more informative. The database column names remain unchanged for now;
a later Alembic script can fix the name of these and other columns to
match their Python name.

This might break rcextensions, though, and external scripts that use
the HTML form interface.